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The process of life is filled with paradox , is impossible and uniform , is also impossible and stereotyped. Person is that current the earth goes up the most complex animal, its prime cause lies in desire and the thought of person. Regardless of us how evasion, we can not escape the subject of desire. When I look , desire is a handle double-edged sword, it can urge livelihood this social development of times , can also let people breed greediness and has no to be disgusted , so that trend reverse side.
Spirit is that people do any source power and prime cause of matter. This world is rich and colorful, we have no the necessary person of unwarranted anxiety certainly for worry day , overstep the bounds even our mental world, our human body oversteps the bounds , that also simply is the form of a kind of life just.
When Pan time that pulls and that box opens , this world is doomed to have pestilence, disaster, war, barrenness and desire, struggle is resisted , it is bloody, we are ordinary person formerly , have 7 feelings six desireses , have the life locus that belongs to self. I have said, person, at some time, what show is hypocritical, this kind of hypocritical at more time, have been given a kind of is sanctimonious.
At more time, we not only when struggle own human body, also when struggle own spirit. When I look , no a kind of pain contain than come from on spirit contain is more severe. Attempt to cover up our life of today with what vocabulary regardless of us, when I look , our spirit is barren, our faith is pale.
Certainly, the association way of modern person also becomes succinct , becomes directly white. Once runs into possibility for a achievement feelings, once may make spark about rubing by chance, a accident possibility causes to be deep-rooted to imprint on the mind , modern person when Shan the life that changes , in front of and fast rhythm, the most person longs for own mental world, is diversified, even long for to have the opportunity to become the "third party" " carry on a clandestine love affair " , even have person happy this is not tired to be hobby according to this.
One of my friend, character very Ru is elegant, there is life taste very much, it also has the wife of very good family and very virtuous America, but we get together each time , talk about mental world, he has the subject that says not , I can strong feelings goes to his mental world is dull and dull, he even more than once tell me after wine " I very much want to have one opportunity of oversteping the bounds , as if once beauty run into , then, there is a splendid life story. " I believe that what he say is real words, and his words have certain representative surely.
When move restlessly in mental world, people let own spirit not well-behaved on the one hand, on the other hand attempting effort show and this kind of not well-behaved opposition and exclusion, show the "rule" on spirit, in fact, this is a kind of false appearance just. After I go up a dose son hair , position friend follows model book beneath, half is mock, half is to ask a question: " carry on a clandestine love affair? Have become a kind of fashion, a kind of habit, or say that is a kind of life style of modern person , have spirit, it also has body. The form of showing only is different just. " I for this words basic identification.
I as have when and message rich guest goes up that everything that occurs , is so hard Shi bosom, is because I have seen the another surface of the mental world of people through those sincere and unconventional writings, feelings has gone to people mental world a kind of move restlessly and struggle. No matter pretty writing, it is still heavy writing, when is direct or indirect tell us: The spirit of person is filled with variable forever, is filled with Shan change guide since. Need not evade such subject, when the time that this door has opened , everything in door and door outside see guest, what leave is the problem of selecting what way.
I so do not be disgusted , write this series with tired it, and not is I for this kind of spirit or desire " overstep the bounds " appreciate so, or is I will advocate encouragement painstakingly people " earnestly practice " all these, is when I look , evade with it , have better to still face.
We have no courage and courage of Lu Suo, dare straight surface own life, everything of own lights " repent " under sunshine and in fact, we need not also repent , the spiritual poverty of modern person have long is not what fresh subject. Denote human existence , because of spiritual culture, can not satisfy the consciousness behavior situation that need to cause basically. It shows to lack active consciousness , loses life goal , feelings are exhausted , values outmoded, cultural amusement low taste , wallow in old custom, all rates from old Zhang, etc..
Male and female relation just like a level of thin window paper, see you to think that stab to break it is still paper biography sound?
A lot of persons have such cognition , are enjoying the initial stage that love gives pleasure to joyfully , you even separate the person that day can still recall and love for lingering a entire evening scene, you hope sharing with him the minute of life each point in second as well as life is moved , stabilize however gradually along with love, especially go into marriage, the mysterious sense of each other has nothing left , those movement and heart that lets popular feeling jump have spirit Xi the romantic feelings of expression in the eyes and sweetness words assign dust gradually is remembering , you are accustomed to slowly in such life , allow realistic control. But do not forget , no matter man is still the nourishment of how woman need to like , do not put out if liking fire between you, you would not again roll up "third party" arm words, should you seek to return the romance that belongs to self? American psychoanalysis treatment expert wheat shelf good fortune Er suggestion: " spirit gorgeous meet can let the intimate relation between both sexes with more vigour. "
Network is convenient and existence, for the spirit with unprincipled people, oversteping the bounds have offered the best platform. This is complicated changeful world, no any way can for feelings this is true again nihility , pure and complex spiritual phenomenon offers powerful guarantee. A lot of facts of " overstep the bounds " stimulate the nerve with sensitive people, flood the ear membrane of people under, compare spirit oversteps the bounds is insignificant. For example, you go on avenue, is head-on to go to a youthful beauty, opposite man looks back again and again, and if fantasy has such beauty to accompany , is good, isn't this that calculate spiritual to overstep the bounds? One is married woman has a smile on face while facing words or the behavior of a little ambiguous opposite sex to accept , is this also not spiritual to overstep the bounds?
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November 5,2007
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