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In these years, Chinese seemingly goes , is some as going. But toward Chinese the National People's Congress that goes , it is young, go up age, go or not like mostly, even this Ga La rabbit does not shit , he is also willing to harbor , is in here.
What reason? Are you that Chinese loves native soil only? Is " who does not say An hometown " is good? Is not. He when this bitter Ba Ku Ye have harbored all the life, since having not also harbored some of full meals, hometown is good?
But actually, being not happy and far for what thing to pull Chinese go? Interpersonal relation. Kinsfolk circle, friend circle, colleague circle, classmate circle and comrade-in-arms are enclosed , this again adds the circle of online friend for some years.
Chinese does not like the genuine reason of going , can not be away from these things. " which also do not go , in here so many years. " in here so many years. Are you to grudge this place? Is not , is to grudge the net of interpersonal relation of a trap a circle of so long, very easy establishment.
So to a new place, shouldn't you build interpersonal relation again? May, but need time. A person alive unsatisfactory 100, rush at mostly only to gallop for tens of years. After having not gone to the 10 planes of some years before society , into new unit, know colleague and familiar lead , make friend and enlargement to contact with , have no the 8 years of decade, this net of interpersonal relation you weave is not good. You do not leave home , snuggle up in parents side, weaving the speed of net can soon son. You rush world alone , will count slowly.
Snuggling up in parents side to be what weave net quickly? Have got the 7 kinsfolks of 8 big aunt big aunts first to enclose , enclose by kinsfolk to expand to four weeks friend circle, having entered unit have built colleague circle; Person goes to middle age, interpersonal relation is still not enough to use , and then picks up past primary school, middle school, university, as well as the time in army to return , repair is enclosed into classmate circle and comrade-in-arms, this again adds the circle of online friend for some years. On net being passionately in love to net take off meet. It is which to go , it has person. No classmate seeks comrade-in-arms , has no comrade-in-arms to seek online friend.
Which go to a place recently, have no these circles, have no acquaintance trip not? Is also all right , it is been all right that catching up with travel agency to turn mountain turn water to play few days. Live really in here, do you try? Aren't you to say that motherland has kinsfolk everywhere? It has person to say , but your letter?
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Which have interpersonal relation, person sees well , has easy to do matter; Unmanned occasion relation, person does not see , matter disaster manages , have you explained what? The close cruelty between person and person Ling desert. Those see the probably fiery life with boiling charcoal state, actually is each different circle of one and another big and small forms is turning , stay the person besides circle, meeting feels lonely and lonely really. This is why a lot of the National People's Congress that stays metropolis cries out is too cold. Because he has not entered in those small circles.
Chinese why like circle, have reflected that China now still lacks a public morals system , lacks the humane care of a kind of institutionalization. When a strange individual experience is difficult, what we often see is: It is apathetic, unconcerned. Why? He does not know you. This is after why traffic accident, kneel while facing land the person of cry for help, a another big and small vehicles stalk off; Why, one pours land for teenager, it is numerous to surround sight person, but on a person, it is former to use to beg. He will know you, it is minimum to call telephone.
Lean parents at home , go out to lean friend; Dozen tigers kiss brother, go into battle father son soldier. Our not strange life experiences are summarized , are you out of date? Have no. , it is strong that some things recover to develop to recover. You dry point Sha son, mustn't you seek person?
So, do not like Chinese that goes , why these years go to foreign countries is more and more? With household with us, this is different. The younger brother of the author goes to Germany in certain year, life land is not cooked , besides station, is wandering , one old before person goes up ask needs help? Then, send younger brother after the place that will go , drive and go. It is very natural, very normal, is this to do , must be not grateful.
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